Some people are meant to fall in love with eachother, But not meant to be together.

Shape: [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] Akasha Shape Not available
Skin: -Belleza- Ava Tan 0 Belleza
Eyes: Clemmm Fract Eyes Inhuman Clemmm
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Eyeliner: -Glam Affair- Couture Eyeliner no.03 Glam Affair
Make up: R.icielli – EYELINERS 02 / Brown R.icielli
Freckles: *League* Jen Freckles -Dark (Tattoo Layer) League
Beauty spots: mijn.botique / skincare / face beauty marks mijn.botique
Teeth: – DAMNED – 3D Parted Lips & Pouty. DAMNED
Hair: [LeLutka]-DOLCE hair – AlmostGoth LeLutka
HairBase: Malaysian Lace Front Caps (Hairbase) – Black [ef] Eskimo
Ears: [MANDALA]SIMPLE EARS [MANDALA]
Earrings: ChaChaDee! – NOT ENOUGH Earrings ChaChaDee!
Choker: *BOOM* Precious Bow Choker pitch *BOOM*
Tattoo: *L.inc* New Unnamed Tattoo o.o not for sale
Shirt: [Cynful] Opportunity Combi Dress – Black [Cynful]
Hands: Slink Mesh Hand Slink
Bracelets: [EY:NO] Mess Bangles Silver [EY:NO]
Watch: mijn.botique accessories *minimal studded clock* silver mijn.botique
Ring: [MANDALA] Motsumame Ring Black/Silver [MANDALA]
Shorts: *T.Whore*- Vintage Jeans Black *T.Whore*
Legwarmers: ..:Perle Legwarmers [Black]:… Perle
feet: Slink Ladies Mesh Barefeet (Static) Flat Slink

In every girls life: Theres a boy she’ll never forget, and a summer where it all began…

Hey ladies ♥

Wow what an warm welcome i had yesterday! Thank you all so much for the sweet comments,Ims & Pms.
Its so good to be back.
The look im wearing today was kinda an inspired look from the super beautifull Kathya Szczepanski that blogged this skirt recently in white too.
Ive fell inlove with it right away and just had to have it myself. (Thnx babe)! ♥
This new mesh skirt is from Spirit Store and available in 6 colors.
Each color cost 250$L for some people maybe a bit expansive but i think its a must have and totally worth it.
Another thing i totally adore is this new Lelutka hair! Like most of the time they released 3 different hairstyles and 2 of them are just so amazing.
U really need to check it out for urself.
Something i noticed is they have 2 different versions in the folder and thats the normal ones and the (o)(o) ones… So i guess Lelutka is finally
making hair for big boobed ladies too.

Shape: [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] Akasha Shape Not available
Skin: -Belleza- Ava Tan 0 Belleza
Eyes: Clemmm – Glass SMALLER IRIS Clemmm
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Eyeliner: -Glam Affair- Couture Eyeliner no.03 Glam Affair
Make up: R.icielli – EYELINERS 02 / Brown R.icielli
Freckles: *League* Jen Freckles -Dark (Tattoo Layer) League
Beauty spots: mijn.botique / skincare / face beauty marks mijn.botique
Teeth: – DAMNED – 3D Parted Lips & Pouty. DAMNED
Wheat: [SISU] Wheat Chewy! [SISU]
Hair: [LeLutka]-CANTO hair – Overcooked LeLutka
Flower: /artilleri/ Hibi hair flower (chin) *white* artilleri
Tattoo: :Little Pricks: Kismet :Little Pricks:
Top: the Bishes Inc. Angel Top White the Bishes Inc.
Bikini Thong: *L.inc* Micro Bikini White L.inc
Skirt: Spirit Store – Veronika rigged mesh skirt white Spirit Store
Piercings: all from Puncture
Hands: Slink Mesh Hand Slink
Bracelets: [EY:NO] Mess Bangles Silver [EY:NO]
Watch: mijn.botique accessories *minimal studded clock* silver mijn.botique
Ring: [MANDALA] Motsumame Ring Black/Silver [MANDALA]
Feet + Flippie Floppies: Slink Womens Natural Barefeet & Slink Aussie Thongs White Slink

Okey hopefully thats all im wearing. atleast the things u can see me wearing haha
Have an amazing week everybody ♥
and i wish u all fun with shopping.
Lotsa Love, xoxo
Soaphy

People say time heals all wounds. I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and survived.

Hey everybody ♥

Its been a while!
Finally after almost 5 months i’ve decided to make my return on SL and slowly pick up my blogging.
Ive missed some of you so much! i even missed blogging sometimes haha.
Im back since almost a week now and things are a bit rusty.
Hopefully everything goes a lot smoother soonish.
Im not completely back yet but will be from of next month since i will have more time then.
But for now ill blog whenever i feel like doing it and when i have the time.
I wanted something new with my blog so im still working on that too… Sorry for the mess.

Shape: [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] Akasha Shape Not available
Skin: -Belleza- Ava Tan 0 Belleza
Eyes: .ID. Gem Eyes / Colors / Dark / Coal Insufferable Dastard
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Eyeliner: -Glam Affair- Couture Eyeliner no.03 Glam Affair
Lips: -Belleza- Shy/Betty Tan lips 3 Belleza
Beauty spots: mijn.botique / skincare / face beauty marks mijn.botique
Freckles: *League* Jen Freckles -Dark (Tattoo Layer) League
Teeth: – DAMNED – 3D Parted Lips & Pouty. DAMNED
Hair: Eaters Coma – HAIR 09 / Ash Brown Eaters Coma
Ears: [MANDALA]SIMPLE EARS [MANDALA]
Earrings: ChaChaDee! – NOT ENOUGH Earrings ChaChaDee!
Glasses: [Steinwerk] – Alphabeat glasses [Steinwerk]
Tattoo: *L.inc* New Unnamed Tattoo o.o not for sale
Shirt: *chronokit* Shirts 04 Check Pink *chronokit*
Hands: Slink Mesh Hand Slink
Bracelets: [EY:NO] Mess Bangles Silver [EY:NO]
Ring: [MANDALA] Motsumame Ring Black/Silver [MANDALA]
Jeans: .:villena:. – skinny jeans Black .:villena:.
Shoes: 2REAL GLYDERZ SHOES 2REAL

So that was my huge list! haha
At the end of every post im always so surprised by how long it is…
Anyways hope you enjoyed just as much as i did.
And have fun shopping!
Lotsa love,
Soaphy ♥

The world is round and the place which may seem like the end may also be the beginning.

Dear Friends,Familie,Bloggers,Fallowers,Readers,Creators,Haters,

Its been a while! and this post has been running thru my mind ever since my last post.
Wow you been thinking about this for like months Soaphy? ehmmm yea >.> lol
I have no idea how to bring this but ill try to explain some things.

On the first of October 2007 i started my Secondlife, it used to be a bit boring for me since i didnt know a word english at all.
I tryd secondlife for a hour or so and didnt get on my account anymore ever since…
In RL me and my boyfriend just bought a house far away from the place where i lived before and where my familie and friends were still living.
I just took some of my stuff with me and my Cat named Tiba.
Since i was going thru a really bad time in my life i wasn’t able to work so i stayed home did some cleaning go on my pc and sit with my Cat Tiba.
Tiba was my everything i loved her so much i cant even describe it the connection i had with her.
On 10 October 2007 she died because of kidney failures. Ive been crying for days and thinking about her now brings tears in my eyes again.

I searched something to keep my mind of my sadness for a while and so i came back on Secondlife. I had alot to learn and to discover so that would keep me busy.
I didn’t like those inworld translators so i switched screens every second to translate every line random people were saying. lol
It did help me alot and soon after translating everything i was able to have conversations with people.
I started camping to earn some money to buy stuff for my avatar and while i did that ive met the most amazing people.
People that are STILL my friends right now and will be part of my life for hopefully forever.
Anyways… Another thing i wanted to learn was photoshopping. i hated and still hate photoshop but i enjoy the results you can make with it.
I did client work for a while but didnt enjoy it so i wanted something else.
Because shopping was the thing i did the most in SL and i was oke in photoshopping i wanted to start my own blog.
I wanted something that stood out from the other blogs because i noticed there were alot of blogs already.
After thinking long about it i wanted something i could put my heart and soul into a part of ME. Sharing not only new and old products and looks but also music and quotes that make people think about stuff.
So On 4 October 2010 i made Oh So Necessary and when i figured out how everything was working i chased my dream and spended a lot of time in it and with success.
The comments the IMs the notecards all the love i got from most of you it was all so overwhelming and heartwarming. i can barely explain how good it made me feel and how thankful i am because at the end of the day its all of you that made me to the person i was at that point.

Thru my blog i met so many amazing people but sadly enough alot of fake backstabbing people too that try to make your life miserable and fuck you over in a heart beat.
I stay true to myself and what i stand for. Some people don’t believe in it and think its a mask im wearing well its not. The only mask i was wearing was acting everything was fine while i put my heart into something and get fucked over again and again. Acting like i didn’t care while at some points i was crying rivers in RL.
and Yea i know some people are laughing right now or think its pathetic but its the honest truth.
Storys are beeing made up by people and some people think ive lied about stuff but i didnt… And one day people will know i was right because only time will tell.
Due that time the feeling started to get stronger of not belonging on SL anymore and i started disliking it.
I knew for a long time that i wouldn’t stick around forever but for now i kept going on with SL for some of the friends i had.
I started to get really close with “the new girl” she fucked me over too and there was the point it was enough and i was able to leave SL aside.
Even though it did hurt alot im extremely thankful because that was the moment when one door closed and another opens.
I wasn’t only disappointed in the people doing this to others or the people around it saying stuff about them yet stick around because of benefits but i was also disappointed in myself for not stepping out sooner and give people the chance to do things like that to me in the first place.
Im a believer in things such as Karma and i believe ive been hurt so i was able to step out and grow as person.
I believe the people that have teated me the way they did, sooner or later get what they deserve! and i do have my connections and i know for a fact for some its happening right now. and i wish those goodluck with that and hope they just learn from it and grow as a person too.

I don’t regret anything and i lived my secondlife for almost the fullest! Im thankful for every moment the ups and the downs.
Im proud of the girl i became,I didnt miss out on anything, Ive had it all! I learned, ive been growing, i fighted for what i thought was inportant, right and what i stood for… Ive been fighting to survive after what i been thru when i was younger,Ive been fighting for life, Ive been fighting for my future and for the future for if i ever will be blessed with having children.
You might have seen this comming already but for now i stop blogging. I wont say its forever because i dont belive in forevers.
Im really busy in RL and if i find time to come online its just to catch up with friends or doing my own thing such as shopping and creating.
I want to thank you all for fallowing my blog and the creators for having faith in my blog. It all ment and means so much to me i cant thank you all enough!
Secondlife and all the residents that walked intoo my life have a special place in my heart even the horrible ones haha.
I wish everybody the best! and ill miss u all and ill miss blogging. Thank you again for everything and hopefully ill see u guys again some day.

Lots of Love,
Soaphy ♥

Being Happy doesnt mean that everything is perfect. it means that youve decided to look beyond the imperfections

Hey cuteys ♥

Today i wanted to talk about the new shoe release of 2REAL.
The new Stackz shoes are highly detailed and comes with a hud including many colors. (14 different colors and 7 unique designs)
You can click each part of the shoe and change the color to make your own unique shoe.
You can also change the lace style ( tuck & tied )
It comes in 3 sizes (Male,Female & Kids) But there is a resize script in it incase it doesnt fit your feet.
And when your done with making the shoe your own style you can remove the scripts if you like.
The shoes are perfect and you can make it match with every look your wearing.
Check pictures below for more info.

Shape: [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] Deshney Shape [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] @ The Marketplace
Skin: *League* Jen Dark Natural League
Teeth: – DAMNED – 3D Parted Lips & Pouty. DAMNED
Fangs: [ni.Ju] Fangs (free) [ni.Ju]
Eyes: {D.A} Sinistre – Sombre Day Dead Apples
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Jacket: *chronokit* Sportswear01 White/Navy/Pink *chronokit*
Tattoo: *L.inc* New Unnamed Tattoo o.o not for sale
Gloves: *L.inc* Bish Gloves Black Not for sale yet
Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Noriko Mesh Hair – Ash Wasabi Pills
Jeans: {mon tissu} Nora Skinny Jeans Dark {mon tissu}
Shoes: 2REAL STACKZ SHOES 2REAL

2REAL STACKZ SHOES AD

2REAL STACKZ SHOES HUD

2REAL STACKZ SHOES Some examples

Enjoy your last day of the weekend!
I sure will… Im finally better so party time! \o/ woooo
See u all soon i hope.
Lotsa Love xoxo Soaphy

Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.

Hai everybody ♥

Cuz i have a flu in rl and my body feels like its in the fridge im going straight to the list.

Shape: [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] Deshney Shape [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] @ The Marketplace
Skin: *League* Jen Dark Natural League
Teeth: – DAMNED – 3D Parted Lips & Pouty. DAMNED
Fangs: [ni.Ju] Fangs (free) [ni.Ju]
Eyes: {D.A} Sinistre – Sombre Day Dead Apples
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Eyeliner1: MONS / Makeups – black eyeliner series-5 MONS
Eyeliner2: “tSg” Feathery Black Lashes tsg
Piercings: :Hebenon Vial: Liquid Gold [faded] :Hebenon Vial: @ Fashian Voodoo
Hair: ::Exile:: Fade Into You:Cashmere Exile
Bunny Ears: O.M.E.N – Fantasy Bunny Ears O.M.E.N @ The Marketplace
Tattoo: *L.inc* New Unnamed Tattoo o.o not for sale
Bracelet: ASO!AlphabetBrace(P)Gold ASO! @ The Arcade Event
Gloves: *L.inc* Bish Gloves Black Not for sale yet
Collar: ::HH:: Hucci Cocktail Bunny Collar Hucci
Bodysuit: *T.Whore*- Britney Bodysuit Black *T.Whore*
Garter: *L.inc* Bitch Garter *L.inc*
Heels: ChaChaDee! – VAN KAY Leather Pump Black ChaChaDee!

Friends are like boobs, some are big, some are small, some are real while some are fake.

Hai everybody ♥

Welcome to my super big post haha
This post im going to show u some stuff of an really hot new event/project called The Boobies show.
Ever since the lola boobs got released im telling more people should make tit appliers for thier clothes.
Because at the beginning there werent that many shops that did.
Luck inc was and is one of the biggest shops when it comes to boob appliers of amazing quality.
Im glad it became really populair at this point so there is more choice to wear when you own this those boobs.
In august Maelynda resident (Mes Sucreries Owner) made a page on flickr about the boobies show.
An event where creators come together and all make appliers for thier clothes.
While i was reading it i got really excited and i just knew this event would become a huge succes.
The boobies show started on 16 september and will last a month long.
After this month new clothes will come and the whole thing starts over again.
This isnt only an event with clothes uve seen before but also EXCLUSIVE clothes specially made for this event.
So for every boobie owner or lover this is just an event you have to go to.

Shape: Not for sale
Skin: [PF] Kumi – Pure (dkbrow) [Pink Fuel]
Eyes: d. Select Skin Kiddo eyes d. Select came with the Kiddo skin
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Hair: ::Exile:: Already Gone:Leather Exile
Flower: /artilleri/ Hibi hair flower *pink* artilleri
Tattoo: “Beautiful” Chest Tattoo by Gumball Gumball
Tattoo2: AITUI TATTOO – Heart /faded/ II AITUI
Breasts: Lolas! :::: Push-Up 2.5 Lolas!
Lola Skin Textures: *L.inc* Lolas Skin Applier Pink Fuel Kumi Hazel *L.inc*
Top: *T.Whore*- Lovely Top Leopard Edition The Whore @ The Boobies Show
Culotte: *T.Whore*- High Rise Culotte Black *T.Whore*
Bracelet: !Admiral Spicy! Effect Bracelett !Admiral Spicy!
Gloves: *L.inc* Bish Gloves Black Not for sale yet
Heels: :OW: “Carina” Heel Black ONYX WEAR

Shape: Not for sale
Skin: .tsg. mei mei -bust- xiaxue tone -dark brows- tsg
Eyes: “tSg” WetLook Silver tsg
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Hair: ^;^CaTwA^;^ Mesh Erika Roots/Pearl CaTwA
earrings: :FANATIK: Beaded white hoop earrings :FANATIK:
Collar: *L.inc* Bound Collar White Mamba *L.inc*
Breasts: Lolas! :::: Push-Up 2.5 Lolas!
Lola Skin Textures: :BGTT: Lolas Applier TSG XiaXue tsg
Dress: -SU!- Eve Mini Dress Grey -SU!- @ The Boobies Show
Gloves: [GLUE INK] Ree Gloves (floral) [GLUE INK]
Nails: Mstyle Perfect Sharp Nails – Classic Mstyle
Bangles: [EY:NO] Mess Bangles (silver) [EY:NO]
Watch: SAMARA bow watch diamonds Donna Flora
Heels: Compulsion ‘Sin’ (White) Compulsion

Shape: [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] Deshney Shape [ .:SOPHERIAN:. ] @ The Marketplace
Skin: *League* Jen Pale Feline League
Teeth: – DAMNED – 3D Parted Lips & Pouty. DAMNED
Fangs: [ni.Ju] Fangs (free) [ni.Ju]
Eyes: {D.A} Sinistre – Sombre Day Dead Apples
Lashes: Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong *REDGRAVE* REDGRAVE
Eyeliner1: MONS / Makeups – black eyeliner series-5 MONS
Eyeliner2: “tSg” Feathery Black Lashes tsg
Hair: [e] Studio – Black 04 [elikatira] elikatira is having a SALE!!!
Headband: mijn.botique / accessories *studs headband* black&silver mijn.botique
Piercings: :Hebenon Vial: Liquid Gold [faded] :Hebenon Vial: @ Fashian Voodoo
Collar: *L.inc* Bound Collar Pale Pink Size S *L.inc*
Breasts: Lolas! :::: Push-Up 2.5 Lolas!
Lola Skin Textures: *L.inc* Lolas Skin Applier League Pale *L.inc*
Dressy: PWH Illusions Dress Pink B PWH @ The Boobies Show
Boots: A&Y Deuz Boots Metallic – Black A&Y

elikatira Hair sale sign

So that was my uber huge post lol hope you enjoyed!
I wish you lots of fun at The Boobies Show.
Hopefully ill be able to blog soon again i will have a busy week but ill try!
Dont forget the sale at elikatira its ending 1 october 2012.
All items are 70% off! so grab the hair u want in all the colors u want 😀
Now its ur chance to buy ur fav hair for a really cheap price ♥
Enjoy the last day of the weekend and i wish u all an amazing week!
Lotsa Love,
xoxo Soaphy